I just reborn, how come I become a scumbag?

Chapter 457

Mu Jingwen is a girl with relatively mature ideas and concepts, and her values ​​and outlook on life are formed earlier than her peers.

Of course, this has a lot to do with her upbringing and family background.

Parents from highly educated families generally pay more attention to cultivating their children's independent thinking ability, and have more time and methods to educate their children than parents from other classes of the same generation, so the children they educate can both maintain their individuality and adapt to the secular value system of society.

How do you say this?

Take Mu Jingwen as an example.

Mu Jingwen likes basketball, which is rare among girls.

She also often plays with boys, calling them brothers and sisters, and handles the relationship very well, but without losing the sense of boundaries.

She is carefree in character, but she is also sensitive and delicate, so she was moved to tears by Xu Anruo.

She is a little arrogant and unwilling to admit defeat in character, but she is not bad in nature, and has a good sense of right and wrong, which is reflected in her attitude towards Tan Zijin.

And the most important thing is her view on love.

Mu Jingwen is different from other little girls. She is very clear-headed. She likes what her mother always says, that some people become indifferent when they read too much, and some people become black-hearted when they make too much money.

Children of the new middle class may not be very interested in the second-generation rich, but they are inexplicably unable to resist the first-generation rich who have potential and work hard.

This is also due to the fact that most of the new middle class have good educational qualifications.

So, after a deeper understanding, Mu Jingwen found that she liked Xu Anruo more and more.

She felt that those were not problems.

On the contrary, she even felt that this was Xu Anruo's advantage.

Before, because of Tan Zijin, Mu Jingwen backed out and suppressed her affection, thinking that there was no need to compete with her roommate.

After all, there is more than one excellent boy Xu Anruo.

But now she feels that Xu Anruo is Xu Anruo, irreplaceable.

He has been attracted to two girls.

So if there is two, it is easy to have three.

Boys of this age are dazzled by the flowers, especially those who are enterprising like Xu Anruo. Every step forward and every level he climbs, he will inevitably meet a better girl or a girl with a more suitable value match.

So, it's not a big problem.

He has no actual behavior to say that he is a scumbag.

He has always been very restrained and has always been under moral pressure, but at least his bottom line is good.

In other words, Xu Anruo must make a choice in the end, and he must choose to enter into marriage with one person.

Love is nothing, and ambiguity is nothing. Only marriage, only legal spouses, and getting a certificate are the real other half of life.

But the view of marriage and the view of love are two different things.

In Mu Jingwen's view, love only requires a feeling, and it's enough to like it, but when it comes to marriage, it is the real adaptation of the value system of both parties.

And this is Mu Jingwen's greatest advantage!

Cheng Xiaomao is the first one to appear in life. It seems that his advantages are obvious, but in fact, his disadvantages are also obvious. Mu Jingwen thinks that Cheng Xiaomao is not particularly smart, and family reasons are also a great obstacle and hidden danger. He is okay for love, but not the best choice for marriage.

In comparison, Tan Zijin is indeed not the best choice for love, but suitable for marriage. She is a perfect wife and mother, and very smart, but lacks a little vitality and fun.

Finally, it is herself.

Mu Jingwen feels that she can combine all the advantages of the two. She understands Ruozi, she can also be a good wife and mother, and she can also be full of vitality and fun.

However, her disadvantage is also the biggest, because Ruozi does not favor her.

But it doesn't matter.

It's just that her order of appearance in life is one step later.

Compared with the second generation of rich people, the first generation of rich people has a very special window period, that is, when he is insignificant, that is, when he has not yet made a fortune. At this time, girls who treat him well can often leave a place in their hearts.

Yes, this is also where Mu Jingwen thinks she is different from the other two girls.

In other words, she understands Ruozi very well, and she is also a giving personality, willing to think more and give more for the other person without caring about equal returns.

Mu Jingwen thinks that the stupidest woman in the world is the kind who is always calculating and unsatisfied.

Your husband works hard to earn money to support the family, but you still blame him for not having time to take care of the family and accompany you.

Your husband is obviously a person with a strong sense of responsibility, but you quarreled with him on the spot because he looked at another woman more on the road.

You treat people kindly outside, but when you get home, you don’t treat your husband well, overemphasize your status in the family, and take pride in being a henpecked husband. You never know how to give your manProvide emotional value.

After comprehensive consideration, Mu Jingwen felt that the flaws did not outweigh the merits, or in other words, the flaws that seemed to be there at the moment might not be flaws.

Xu Anruo has great potential.

This potential is not a superficial and secular evaluation, praising a boy for being very good at dealing with things, being very mature and experienced... These are actually useless, they are all bullshit!

Potential depends on characteristics.

First of all, Mu Jingwen believes that Xu Anruo can be admitted to a C9 university from a small county with underdeveloped educational resources, which is proof of intelligence.

But this is only a premise, followed by the self-discipline and hard work that Xu Anruo has shown so far, as well as the clear planning and methodical progress for his life path.

During the exchange, Xu Anruo said very calmly that people always have to have some real skills to seize opportunities.

This was very amazing to Mu Jingwen.

Because this is a clear cognition!

Another thing is that Xu Anruo said that he took advantage of this wave of stock market and made a few million. This really surprised Mu Jingwen.

Thousands of millions!

Mu Jingwen calculated that her family currently has only this amount!

Of course, her family should not be directly measured by wealth, and she is not a person with high material needs.

What surprised Mu Jingwen the most was that Xu Anruo's mentality after becoming rich was not imbalanced at all, which made her once doubt whether Xu Anruo was lying to her. How could he be born a poor boy?

However, Mu Jingwen felt that Xu Anruo did not lie to her.

Therefore, this further reflects the rarity of Xu Anruo. To exaggerate, this boy has gotten rid of the low taste of material level.

The reputation of Phoenix Man has gradually declined in recent years, and it has even evolved into a derogatory term.

How to say it?

It's a bit sad, but it's also reality.

Just like the internal logic that one becomes cold-hearted when reading too many books and becomes black-hearted when earning too much money, a person's progress is too fast, and the soundness and perfection of the soul cannot keep up, thus creating an imbalance in mentality.

But Xu Anruo didn't!