I just reborn, how come I become a scumbag?

Chapter 287

To some extent, Lin Huanhuan and Wang Bin are actually the same kind of people.

Wang Bin is a little gangster.

Lin Huanhuan is a little gangster.

The difference is that one of them is in a rural town, while the other is in a big city.

And such people are actually very common.

Perhaps it is because the parents did not guide them well, or because they were young and ignorant and deviated from the path.

Xu Anruo has no prejudice against this kind of people.

Whether it is the books he has read, or the salt he has eaten, the bridges and roads he has walked, Xu Anruo has always adhered to a principle, that is, you can't look at people from only one side.

People are complex, with many different faces, showing different perceptions.

So what to look at?

Look at the basics!

To put it bluntly, it is a person's self-esteem, bottom line, and basic principles.

Wang Bin has a lot of bad habits, but he has never bullied honest students. He was beaten and scolded by the old class for three years, but he remembered the good things of the old class the most.

In fact, Lin Huanhuan is not bad.

Children in the city are different from those in the countryside.

They have wide information channels and are particularly precocious. In addition, because they are in the city, many premature behaviors do not have certain objective obstacles like in rural areas.

To put it bluntly, there are hotels and inns everywhere in the city.

This is the same as the pile driver brother mentioned by Wang Qinrui before.

So, although Lin Huanhuan is a little gangster girl who plays around, she is very clean in her private life.

To be honest, this is quite rare.

She is just a little brainless.

Then when things happen, she will be a little stressful and break the jar.

Xu Anruo thought about this and understood it.

When he made a mistake as a child and was beaten by his mother, Xu Anruo was angry at the time. He felt that he was not wrong, but his mother said that he was wrong and beat him more vigorously.

Then Xu Anruo had a revenge mentality after not being understood and recognized.

Okay, beat him, beat your son to death!

I won't change, I will make it worse in the future, let's see who will regret it!

This turned into negative feedback.

Fortunately, Xu Guangcheng, the good guy, always showed up in time. Seeing that Xu Anruo was still angry after being beaten, he would enlighten her from another direction.

Lin Huanhuan probably lacked someone to enlighten her in time.

Do you think Lin Huanhuan wants to be like this?

It's hard to say.

It's impossible to tell.

After all, every family has its own problems.

So, Xu Anruo doesn't hate those bad habits.

He is actually very tolerant. He just dislikes the attitude shown by Lin Huanhuan.

Fortunately, Lin Huanhuan has obviously changed a lot after being stimulated.

This change came quickly, not because she changed, but because she is not that bad at heart.

At this time.

"Okay."

Xu Anruo looked down at Lin Huanhuan and nodded.

Taking the initiative to aa means knowing how to give.

Lin Huanhuan also heard that Xu Anruo's tone had softened a little. He was slightly stunned and then said:

"I transferred the money to your Alipay account. Take a look. Two thousand should be enough, right?"

"Two thousand? Don't you have money?"

Xu Anruo reacted.

Lin Huanhuan was stunned and a little panicked. He said repeatedly:

"I, I'm not, I was..."

"It won't take two thousand."

Xu Anruo interrupted.

He was too lazy to pursue those trivial things.

There were four people who went to the bar, Lao Wang and Da Deng, and then Cheng Lu and Lin Huanhuan.

Although Xu Anruo didn't ask Lao Wang, he estimated that the consumption that night was at most more than three thousand, but Lin Huanhuan paid two thousand.

"This is for Cheng Lu and me." Lin Huanhuan said after a moment of silence.

"Don't lie to me." Xu Anruo didn't believe it.

"Anyway, that's all. Wang Qinrui used the excuse of going to the toilet to borrow money from someone. If I hadn't come, he wouldn't have done that. Cheng Lu didn't want to come anyway."

Lin Huanhuan was afraid that Xu Anruo would not agree, so she hurriedly said:

"I don't need this. I have a lot of living expenses every month. Although my mother doesn't care about me, she is quite straightforward to give me money..."

Xu Anruo looked at her and shook her head.

What a good mother!

After a while, Xu Anruo sighed and said unhappily:

"Aren't you smart?"

"Ah? What are you talking about?"

"I'm talking to you, don't you understand the truth? Why do you still care about whether others care about you?"

"I..."

Lin Huanhuan was speechless and lowered her head.

Xu Anruo saw that it was no big deal for her to stand at the door, and she had changed her mind a little, so she thought for a while and said:

"Forget it, you come in first, I'll tell you a few words."

"Really?"

Lin Huanhuan suddenly raised her face, with little stars in her eyes, as if she had won the lottery,Xu Anruo was stunned.

No? ?

Then Lin Huanhuan seemed to be afraid that Xu Anruo would regret it. She was small, so she slipped under Xu Anruo's armpit and ran into the guest room.

Xu Anruo closed the door, walked in, and frowned:

"Who told you to get on the bed?"

"Is it not possible?"

Lin Huanhuan stuck out her tongue.

She hurried down and sat on the sofa in the direction of Xu Anruo's finger.

Xu Anruo sat opposite her, thought for a while, then looked at Lin Huanhuan, his face was very serious, and his tone was not at all joking, and said:

"Let me tell you something, the self-evaluation system."

"What? No, I haven't heard of it."

Lin Huanhuan shook her head.

Xu Anruo's face immediately turned serious:

"If you haven't heard it, listen carefully!"

"Oh."

"Your problem lies here, there is something wrong with your self-evaluation system! The self-evaluation system mainly consists of two things, one is self-cognition, and the other is the three views. There are also two sources for its establishment, external and internal, and you have no internal at all!"

Xu Anruo tried to be as concise as possible.

Lin Huanhuan listened very carefully.

Then, Xu Anruo continued:

"I just said that you understand the reason, why don't you follow it? It's because you pay too much attention to the external self-evaluation system, the key is your father and mother..."

Xu Anruo said a lot.

Focused on analyzing Lin Huanhuan's personality disorder.

She always said that her parents didn't care about her, and then she rebelled. In fact, there was something wrong with her self-evaluation system, which was too dependent on external evaluation.

She cared too much about her parents' recognition and affirmation, and then produced meaningless confrontation, which evolved into internal consumption and negative feedback.

In addition, the root cause of her problems was attributed to her parents, which was also the reason.

In comparison, Tan Zijin was much better than her.

External factors were more unfair to Tan Zijin, but they never influenced her efforts. Why? Because she had an independent and firm internal self-evaluation system!

Although it was immature and imperfect, it was enough to support Tan Zijin's inner tenacity.

"You live to be responsible for yourself. What kind of person you are and what you want to get should be your heart. Do you understand? You must establish your own internal evaluation system and manage yourself!"

After Xu Anruo finished speaking, he stared at Lin Huanhuan.