Chapter 225
Chapter 225
Xu Anruo smiled without saying anything, and handed the bag over again. Tan Zijin could only take it obediently.
Giving gifts all the time can easily put pressure on people.
Especially since Tan Zijin still has this kind of personality.
So Xu Anruo added another sentence, saying in a nonchalant tone:
"I went to Shanghai on a business trip this time. Usually, when I come back from a business trip, I will bring some small gifts or something. Whether it is expensive or not is secondary. It's just a little sense of ritual in life, you know?"
That's the explanation.
The reason is the same.
But the more important reason is Xu Anruo's habit before rebirth.
At that time, he was busy, but no matter if he was on a business trip or he hadn't seen his girlfriend for a few days, Xu Anruo would never be empty-handed when they met.
Sometimes it was a bouquet of flowers, sometimes it was a small cake from a roadside cake shop, or a special gadget from a certain place on a business trip.
It doesn't cost much, but it can bring a lot of emotional value to girls.
Well, Aquaman basic operation!
"Is it a sense of ceremony?"
Tan Zijin nodded, looking thoughtful.
Entered a cafeteria.
Xu Anruo still had a big appetite.
Tan Zijin didn't need Xu Anruo to supervise her. A bowl of porridge, a bun, and a box of milk were nutritionally balanced.
After sitting down, Tan Zijin carefully put the bag on the seat.
Xu Anruo looked at her and remembered that she had sent a message asking Xu Anruo not to lie to her again in the future, and realized that the communication between the two was still not enough.
He knew Tan Zijin very well.
But Tan Zijin might not know him very well.
After a pause, Xu Anruo spoke and asked:
"Are you curious about me?"
"Ah?"
Tan Zijin was stunned.
Obviously, he was surprised by this question.
"That is, what kind of person do you think I am? Let's be more specific. We graduated from the same high school, but after I went to college, I bought a car, and then I invested in a project with my friends in my freshman year. For example, I have made many requests to you. Aren't you surprised and curious?" Xu Anruo asked seriously. He knew that Tan Zijin must be curious. But with her personality, she didn't dare to ask directly, fearing that it would be inappropriate. Tan Zijin lowered her head, was silent for a while, and said: "Yes." "Do you think people of my age should not be like this?" "Yes, I feel that you are very different from others." "Don't you look like a student?" "Yeah." Tan Zijin nodded. Xu Anruo smiled and then said:
"This feeling is right, but if I tell you that I come from an ordinary family and I earned the money to buy a car, will you not understand it even more? You will not understand how a freshman can earn hundreds of thousands of dollars all of a sudden? Right?"
"Yeah!" Tan Zijin nodded.
"This is what I want to tell you, cognition!"
"Cognition?"
"Yes, cognitive level! There is a saying that it is difficult for people to make money beyond cognition. Why? Because they cannot understand. Not being able to understand means limited cognition. Limited cognition determines limited ability, and this ability is the ability to create wealth!"
Xu Anruo tried to be as concise as possible.
After that, he gave an example:
"Look, the lady serving food over there only knows how to serve food. Your father used to be a bricklayer. He only knows how to lay brick walls. Then people with education can do mental work. Highly educated people not only have decent jobs but also earn a lot of money... What is the strength of capable people? Isn't it because he knows a lot and can do it!"
Tan Zijin has always had a strong ability to understand.
Hearing this, she nodded and said:
"I understand."
"Understand? Then let me ask you, how can I improve my cognitive level?"
"Study?"
"Yes! It's learning. This is why people without background resources must study hard, sharpen their brains to get into better universities, and compete for better limited educational resources! Because this is the most fair and effective way! Do you understand?"
Xu Anruo persuaded.
Tan Zijin nodded seriously as if he was listening to a lecture, and said:
"Yeah, I understand!"
"Well, let me tell you the second thing, logical thinking!"
"Logical thinking?"
"Well, to put it simply, thinking with a way of thinking that ensures that the correct conclusion can be drawn is called logical thinking. Do you understand?"
"Can I understand it with mathematical problem-solving ideas?"
Tan Zijin asked.
Xu Anruo nodded and said:
"Yes, it can be understood as methods and ideas! For example, there is a difficult problem. Some people rush in, some people will think a little, and some people will summarize and deduce and analyze calmly.Find the precise entry point, who do you think can solve the problem the fastest? "
"The third one!"
"Oh, right! Let me tell you something more detailed? For example, if you encounter a problem you don't understand, what do you do? Should you ask someone?"
"Yeah!" Tan Zijin nodded.
"You are wrong!" Xu Anruo shook his head.
Tan Zijin couldn't understand, looked at Xu Anruo seriously, and asked:
"Where, what's wrong? Ask if you don't understand?"
"Wrong thinking."
"Ah?"
"How can you ask if you don't understand? What about induction and deduction in advance? You can go to Baidu first, search for information, and try to actively seek and improve the corresponding knowledge system first!"
Xu Anruo argued.
Tan Zijin frowned and said:
"But, asking if you don't understand is also one of the ways to actively seek, right? "
Xu Anruo was stunned and smiled.
Oh, not bad, I started to argue with him.
So, Xu Anruo nodded and said:
"Yes, it is true, but have you ever thought that the questions you ask have different levels of quality, and asking low-level questions will only make others think you are stupid. Then people ask you, which school are you from? You say you are from Jiangda, and they frown and say that students from Jiangda ask questions of this level? Aren't you embarrassing the school! "
"Ah? "
Tan Zijin was stunned.
He stared at Xu Anruo with wide eyes.
Xu Anruo stopped talking and ate breakfast and drank milk, pretending to be very cool.
In fact, what he said was the truth.
Be it cognition or thinking logic, it is really important.
As for the last detailed question, it was a sincere advice given by a professor with deep hatred during the defense of the senior thesis in the previous life.
It means that you people, whether you continue to study or take up a job after graduation, don't ask questions without asking. No one thinks you are so studious. On the contrary, if you ask some low-level questions, people will doubt the teaching level of our Jiangda University, and the teacher is afraid of being embarrassed!
Anyway, this sentence left a deep impression on Xu Anruo.
Then Tan Zijin was obviously immersed in thinking and digesting.
Xu Anruo looked at him from time to time, and didn't say much.
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